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Friday , May 9 , 2008
Woman in Islam
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The role of women in Islam has been misunderstood in the West because of general ignorance of the Islamic system and way of life as a whole, and because of the distortions of the media.

The Muslim woman is accorded full spiritual and intellectual equality with man, and is encouraged to practice her religion and develop her intellectual faculties throughout her life. In her relations with men both are to observe modesty of behavior and dress and a strict code of morality which discourages unnecessary mixing of the sexes. Her relations with her husband should be based on mutual love and compassion. He is responsible for the maintenance of the wife and children, and she is to give him the respect due to the head of the family. She is responsible for the care of home and the children's early training. She may own her own property, run her own business and inherit in her own right.

She may not be married without being consulted and is able to obtain divorce. The system of limited polygamy can be seen to have its uses which may be in the interests of women as well as men. Finally she can look forward to an old age in which she is respected and shown every care by her children and by the society as a whole.

It would appear therefore that the Islamic system has achieved the right mixture of freedom and security that women seek and that is in the interest of the society as a whole. [As I mentioned at the start of this paper,] I have given the relevant quotations directly from the Qur'an and hadith since these are obviously the most authentic sources. If at different times and in different places these principles and laws have sometimes been distorted, ignored or flouted, it is not the principles and laws which are at fault, but man's selfishness which sometimes leads them to distort, ignore and flout what they do not like, and turn aside from the truth.

Fortunately no one has changed or can change the words of the Qur'an, and the regulations for the protection of women which were revealed in the 7th century can be easily verified by anyone in the 20th century, as we have just been doing. I believe that these laws and social regulations regarding women contain certain fundamental truths which will benefit whoever applies them. The present time of widespread rethinking of the role and rights of women is perhaps the appropriate time to look with fresh eyes at the Islamic point of view, which has contributed to the formation of stable societies in both sophisticated and underdeveloped peoples in vast areas of the world over the past fourteen centuries, which has retained the continuity of its principles, and from which the Western world may have something to learn.


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comment 19
religion date : 16/05/2008 time : 16.58
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Hi! All.

Read this: http://bibleperversion.com/islam/chapter11.asp?page=1
comment 18
Obeyno1kinobe date : 16/05/2008 time : 13.09
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Customs, laws and culture, linked to religions, are potentially the most dangerous.

Whether it be poligamy, dress restrictions, eating restrictions, segregation, restricting women from driving, or operating freely in the public sphere, by putting the man as head of the family rather than the more modern partnership or equals, punishments for criminals, stoning of adulturers (not the smoky kind), acceptance of slaves, and just the inherent "My tribe is special and you are heathens".
comment 17
Obeyno1kinobe date : 16/05/2008 time : 13.04
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Religion, I guess there may be some misconceptions between what your interpretation of Islam means with respect to women and the actual practices is Islamic majority places. And a westeners perceptions may reflect ignorance of the actual teachings attributed to your Prophet, sharia law, and focusing on the negative things we see, from the perspective of our values.

Some might even argue that women in Islam were better of in some ways than those in the West until the 20th century e.g. restrictions on the legal capacity of women were only removed in France during the 1960's. Although, I think Islamic judges seem to consistently give women's testimony half the value of a man's.

I'm afraid I dissagree with the very core of your argument, which is relying on medieval religious dogma to define the roles and responsibilities of women and men.

Your religion locks people into the middle ages.

Even in the West, many of the improvements in the rights, quality of life, freedom, and equality of women are relatively recent. New Zealand was the first modern nation to give women the vote just over a hundred years ago. And there is plenty of non Muslim places, with plenty to do to give women equality and better lives.

Unfortunately, Islam has the sex relationship defined in a way that is not equal, along with dozens of other rules treating men and women differently, locked in religious dogma.

Christianity, Judaism are also sexist (and racist, I mean the fundamental premise of Judaism is that the Jews are Gods chosen people - how elitist is that).

My understanding is even in Buddhism, male monks and female monks are treated differently.

But when I look at the status, the restrictions, the violence, and the inequality against women in the Muslim world, I'm glad my sister wasn't born there.
comment 16
Lalida date : 10/05/2008 time : 16.54
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Religion,

I think this one is better....
comment 15
Lalida date : 10/05/2008 time : 16.42
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Religion,

"It is Islamic that the woman should beautify herself with the veil of honor, dignity, chastity, purity and integrity."

My natural understanding of "honor, dignity, chastity, purity and integrity" it's inside of a human mind not outside, so how can you justify that with a black cloth?

"She is warned not to display her charms or expose her physical attractions before strangers. The veil which she must put on is one that can save her soul from weakness, her mind from indulgence, her eyes from lustful looks, and her personality from demoralization."

Your God made a man Adam and a woman called "Eve". They wore nothing, is that right? Can you explain to me what's the pupose of your God making eve? Just to reproduce? If uour God can foresee everything of women today in Bikini, short skirts.....bla, bla, bla. Why didn't he simply make a rock with a hole to reproduce. Why come up with a brian that consist of lust, sexual desire...etc..etc.. Were women not made to attract men to reproduce same as every animal in this world?
comment 14
Lalida date : 10/05/2008 time : 16.29
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Religion,

What you wrote from the Quran point of view, I don't argue. I argue that your God is invading Human rights, it sounds to me your God is saying "Women can not be trusted". What if your God is a "She"? Will men be treated the same way? Who tells you your God is a "Man", who is he to judge what morality is and women's behavior? Under the heat of the sun, your God left them like a NINJA. Is it fair? They can't even take a proper picture to be remember by the family or friends. Where does this "Equality" lies? Let's talk about human rights for a change instead of your God.......
comment 13
FelixQui date : 10/05/2008 time : 12.45
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I would have to agree with Ian inC. 12. The effect it has on people and their behaviour and thinking must be a relevant consideration when judging the merits (not the truth - we alreadly know it is false) of any religion. And although the Christians in earlier centuries were as vile as the Moslems still are today, the truth is that Moslems are far and away the most wilfully ignorant, oppressive, intolerant, arrogant, and generally nasty people of the book around today. Worse even than the Jews of Israel.
Perhaps, Religion, you would do better to preach the "virtues" of the Koran to your fellow Moslems? The people on this Blog, and people in general, manage to live much perfectly good and moral lives without it.
comment 12
Ian date : 10/05/2008 time : 10.00
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Religion.
We judge a person by the company he keeps, I judge a religion by the way its followers behave. Even though I have read much of the Quran this tells me no more about Islam than the Bible does about Christianity.
It is the way that Christians and Moslems behave that teaches me about their religions, neither gives me a good impression, but Islam is by far the worst. I judge by behaviour, actions and deeds, I look at countries like Saudi Arabia, Pakistan, Turkey and Iran and am eternally grateful that I had the good fortune not to be born a Moslem.
comment 11
FelixQui date : 10/05/2008 time : 06.06
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Religion,
So according to the Koran, neither men or women are ever trustworthy if the are able to see any temptation? What a miserable view of the human body and of human beings!
And are the statistics for rape or other forms of violence lower in hijab wearing countries than in countries where people dress in a more becoming manner that shows off their bodies? My guess is that they are pretty much the same as elsewhere.
If your god thought human bodies were so vile and dangerous, why didn't he design them better? Is he that incompetent? And isn't he also responsible for the way humans are? Was he so totally unable to design anything a bit better, so that he did not need to tell everyone to cover up his shameful blunders? Why would you want to believe in, let alone worship, something that has proved its own incompetence and dishonest efforts to cover up serious mistakes?

You only answered the simplest of my questions. Why was that? Are the answers to the others even more embarrassing and shameful for your god and your religion?

And you have not answered my main questions:
"If a woman, or a man, does not want to dress modestly, will Islam allow them that freedom, or will it seek to stop to punish those who dress in a manner deemed immodest?
Who decides what is immodest? (This is the easy one you have answered - a truly wonderful answer)
Why should the man be the head of the family? Will Islam allow that a competent woman would and should make a better family head than a less competent man? "
comment 10
religion date : 10/05/2008 time : 04.08
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Hi! Felix,

According to your questions the answers are as follow:

"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty...And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what ordinarily appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms..." (Quran 24:30,31).

The Quran is quite clear that the veil is essential for modesty, but why is modesty important? The Quran is still clear:

"O Prophet, tell your wives and daughters and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments over their bodies (when abroad) so that they should be known and not molested" (Quran 33:59).

This is the whole point, modesty is prescribed to protect women from molestation or simply, modesty is protection. Thus, the only purpose of the hijab in Islam is protection.

Regards
comment 9
religion date : 10/05/2008 time : 03.13
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Hi! Lalida,

What is the logic of the picture?
The Muslim woman is always associated with an old tradition known as the "veil". It is Islamic that the woman should beautify herself with the veil of honor, dignity, chastity, purity and integrity. She should refrain from all deeds and gestures that might stir the passions of people other than her legitimate husband or cause evil suspicion of her morality. She is warned not to display her charms or expose her physical attractions before strangers. The veil which she must put on is one that can save her soul from weakness, her mind from indulgence, her eyes from lustful looks, and her personality from demoralization. Islam is most concerned with the integrity of woman, with the safeguarding of her morals and morale and with the protection of her character and personality (cf. Qur'an, 24:30-31).

Regards
comment 8
religion date : 10/05/2008 time : 03.05
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Hi! all,

After reading your comments mostly are blind spot on the Islamic tenet. Ian, you always compare Islam with Saudi-Arabia or Muslimcontry, where are not Islamic state. Islam based on Qur-an and Hadith, not people or Muslim country.

Regards
comment 7
Ian date : 09/05/2008 time : 21.59
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Can you explain why the British government is worried by the number of resident African Moslem preteen girls who visit to Africa and return with a clitorectomy?
Or the 13 year old girls who get sent back to Pakistan and return with a middle aged husband?
Why if a woman is equal to a man must she walk behind him. why in Saudi Arabia is she not allowed to drive a car on her own?
Why is it that everything you claim is obviously untrue, untrue for anyone to see who visits an Islamic country, or even an Islamic community?
comment 6
Lalida date : 09/05/2008 time : 18.58
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religion,

Can you tell me the logic of this picture?
comment 5
Lalida date : 09/05/2008 time : 15.52
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Mohammad,

I questions are the same as Felix....
comment 4
GGrass date : 09/05/2008 time : 14.59
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Religion: I'm sorry if I sound rude. But what do you expect from a non-Muslim?
comment 3
GGrass date : 09/05/2008 time : 14.57
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Religion: Your title, "Islam is the best religion in the Universe" just puts me off.

How arrogant...
comment 2
FelixQui date : 09/05/2008 time : 14.04
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If a woman, or a man, does not want to dress modestly, will Islam allow them that freedom, or will it seek to stop to punish those who dress in a manner deemed immodest?
Who decides what is immodest?
Why should the man be the head of the family? Will Islam allow that a competent woman would and should make a better family head than a less competent man?
comment 1
wch date : 09/05/2008 time : 12.18

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