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Oh! Ohhh! Haven't shown up here for a week due to the work in unscucessful trade fair.. Then come the topic of "SinSod" What's a hot topic and the comment become battle between bloggers now.. Be clam.. everyone has own point of view .. Narrow and Wide.. Wise and Naive .. etc etc etc.. anyways each of us are individual person with different way of life and experience...........Jai yen yen.. Then i think.. i'd have to write something about this into a new entry instead of long comment the topic that i have never had direct experice effected me but i've seen the other and discuss this with many people surrounded.. the "SinSod" topic bring everyone to the main question "Is that money is the cause of the love for the couple" !?! some may say "Yes yes yes" some might say "No no no" and some would say "Hmm.. May be" .... what do you think? Cut out the conflict of Thai or non-Thai white culture and thais custom.... naturally happily couple life is mostly pending on the money (or even single life too) Just the Thais make it frankly issue in our wedding ceremony (Chinese and other Asian countries too) that "You must have to prepare enought money to have the new family" or at least show our relative you have then they will confidence that you will have a stable husband and family... To avoide SinSod for the wedding you can simply avoid Thai custom just to make you wedding in christian way then the issue will be just how many carat of the diamonds and the way you proposed (Like in the white custom) plus you have to pay for the church and the party instead of doing simple Thai custom at her house just need some money to count in front of parent..(Which one is cost more?)But still people will gossip that "if this guy have money'? it may annoy you but can't deny that money is not the important thing in the couple life... Baby sometimes love just ain't enought.. One of my chinese older friend she used to give the fun idea about mariage (She've been married for more than 10 years) "Girls.. every couple life cause many cries.. just you have to choose where will you be crying... quietly in your limo , Honda, Ford, Toyota or in the geen mini bus" sounds so materialism idea but it's a tought way to think .. Another example one of my friend married a guy with unsuccessful career and have to suffer by paying all the bill of the family by her ownself .. will be no question if she's rich from the beginning or earn a lot to efford all the family needed and he behave nice help with some housework.... but sadly she's not earn that much and he's not that nice she expected.. When woman has babies she naturally want to spend time with the babies more and be a full time mom... Without enought money nobody can do this in real life... But Honey! i love you .. can we just stay together .. i'll make you happy without money!?! .Girl!... if your boyfriend say this... will you still be with him without any future ? Day by day? grow old togetherwithout life insurance or saving account? . ..Are you sure you can handle the "couple" future? This is the question i just want you to ask yourself .. will you love him anyways anyhow in the future..? not just by how much do you love him now.. I'm not saying that you have to always marry the rich people but the idea is at least your man should be able to support you when you are not able to earn by yourself And the very important notice of mariage decision "Don't marry if you just think it's about time" Make sure you really want to spend the rest of your life with him .. make sure you've done what you want already or you will be able to do in the future if you marry this guy... Life is long.. not just a flower in the garden.. yes world full of gays but pleanty of straight guys also... Once your marriage annouced and you are not the Miss anymore even you can divorce in the future things will never be the same again.. If he loves you enought to proposed you he must be able to deal with your culture to make the wedding happens if he's not.. KiCK his ass and say good bye.. Hurt for a month or a year better than suffer the rest of your life.. i've heard some husband always tell around how he "buy" his wife and think she's his own slave.. Don't let this happen to you! Hmm.. Actually money can buy Honey.. only  in the bottles! And again.. before you comment this is just my naive point of view.. . . . Peace and Happiness . . Cheers

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comment 18 naive date : 07/03/2008 time : 10.11 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/naive Narrow and wide by "Naive" point of view. ...................................*v*....................................................................For Thai reader visit http://www.oknation.net/blog/wickedgirl

Ggrass.. no they have happily family ever after opposite if i become a wife i can be a worse one

comment 17 GGrass date : 07/03/2008 time : 09.21 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/GGrass

Naive:Ah... Poor fellas... they must've broke their hearts! You heart-breaker!

comment 16 naive date : 06/03/2008 time : 18.44 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/naive Narrow and wide by "Naive" point of view. ...................................*v*....................................................................For Thai reader visit http://www.oknation.net/blog/wickedgirl

Hrr Ggrass that's one of the reason i denied two proposed

comment 15 Lalida date : 05/03/2008 time : 16.29 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/Real

Thankyou, I and onbehalf of all. We accept....

comment 14 GGrass date : 05/03/2008 time : 08.09 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/GGrass

I'm serious, Lalida... I know how difficult it is to take care of the house. When I'm at work, it feels like vacation compared to staying home. I used to pretend I was sick in the morning so I could stay home and not goto work, but I don't do that anymore. Even when I'm REALLY sick with 40 deg fever, I drag my ass out of the bed before 7 AM, coz if I don't, I might die. Lalida, you might think I'm making fun, but I'm not. Honest. Let me take this moment to compliment and appreciate all the house wives who stay home and battle the house and kids on their own, and still manage to smile at their husbands. You ladies are the driving force of our Nation's economy and industry!

comment 13 Lalida date : 05/03/2008 time : 00.47 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/Real

Sweet mouth.....you do have a way of getting off the hook, don't you?

comment 12 GGrass date : 05/03/2008 time : 00.40 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/GGrass

Just think about it before you roll your eyes, Lalidur~~~. Running a house is a very difficult job. Keeping stocks of things you need, like soap and stuff... Preparing food for everyone in the house, keeping the house clean, hygenic, and at the same time, make the house look pretty as well. Decorating, gardening, etc... And on top of that, if you have children, you have to take care of the children... Wow... So much work to do at home... There is no way anyone can handle all that AND do any meaningful business outside. That's why we need the women to do all the hard work, so we can focus on our relativley easier jobs outside.

comment 11 Lalida date : 05/03/2008 time : 00.33 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/Real

OOOOOOOOOOOOH yeah, GG.......

comment 10 GGrass date : 05/03/2008 time : 00.23 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/GGrass

If the woman wants to contribute, then stay home and take care of the domestic headaches. Let the man take care of outside business.

comment 9 GGrass date : 05/03/2008 time : 00.20 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/GGrass

Serangang? Beats me... was the boy Korean?

comment 8 Lalida date : 05/03/2008 time : 00.00 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/Real

"between old farang that expect a wife to take care when he grow older and older." NAIVE.................

comment 7 naive date : 04/03/2008 time : 19.29 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/naive Narrow and wide by "Naive" point of view. ...................................*v*....................................................................For Thai reader visit http://www.oknation.net/blog/wickedgirl

Lalida, i'm saying not just for me and you... the two Garfield can be by own legs and debate with men... i speak out this issue for all the hello kitty that have no mouth to explain why it is important.. many girls grow up traditional way with less education and can be good housewife.. they shouldn't suffer by doing that without any income and stability to make their living... Normally this issue never been a problem from the Teen or collage sweety that become marriage couple they know each other well enought.. issue is always between old farang that expect a wife to take care when he grow older and older. A question to Ggrass .. some boy told me Serangang what does it really mean?

comment 6 Lalida date : 04/03/2008 time : 15.57 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/Real

True , it's part of the deal but should problems comes, will you let one side deal with it alone...No and I'm sure you will agree with me. If I just sat there and do nothing and watch you die....will you call that a true relationship? money relationship is negative....can you argue on that? No one can....It takes 2 in a true relationship....I can enjoy the wealth you've made but I can share the worst moment you've got...that's true relationship. At least to me...

comment 5 GGrass date : 04/03/2008 time : 15.39 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/GGrass

Lalida: "Money relationship or letting one side to bear the resposibilty, it don't last...." When you say 'money relationship', it sounds so negative. What's wrong with the man making a living for the whole family? The man only wants his wife to stay home and take care of domestic business, so the man can go out and make money for the family? I'd love it if my wife let ME take care of the bill. I hate it when she does that. -_-,

comment 4 Lalida date : 04/03/2008 time : 14.57 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/Real

Naive, I agree with you to a certain extent but the part about money, to me it should be careful planning before you decided to go into a proper marriage, whether asian or falang style don't matter, it still cost an arm and a leg unless you wanted to do it in Las vegas for fun. The planning should involve how much need to be spent, is it worth it, can we afford it... Now take note, it should be a matter of "You and I" not the parent side, they can say what they want of "who is responsible" but the true fact is it affects both. Deal within before you deal with them. Second part, True Love is not bread and butter but money is not everything either. True relationship cannot be parted for whatever reasons, there's always a solution that can be solved by 2 brains. Money relationship or letting one side to bear the resposibilty, it don't last.... we all have our ups and downs, who can be 100% sure problems of any kind will not aries including financial.... Takes 2 brains to make send waves...

comment 3 GGrass date : 04/03/2008 time : 14.51 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/GGrass

No money, No honey.

comment 2 naive date : 04/03/2008 time : 09.58 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/naive Narrow and wide by "Naive" point of view. ...................................*v*....................................................................For Thai reader visit http://www.oknation.net/blog/wickedgirl

I think, as long as my understanding of 'how much is enough' and her understanding of 'how much is enough' are on the same level, it's alright... Yes Ggrass .. this is another true... But sadly many relationship base on illusion and hight expectation.. then they not reach the "Enought" point easily

comment 1 GGrass date : 04/03/2008 time : 09.06 http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/GGrass

Naive: So true, when you say, "then the issue will be just how many carat of the diamonds" And so true about crying in a Benz or a Green Mini bus... The sinsord and the diamond are just the beginning... only the tip of the iceberg. I think, as long as my understanding of 'how much is enough' and her understanding of 'how much is enough' are on the same level, it's alright...

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