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Wednesday , November 4 , 2009
Influence of words
Posted by Tow , Reader : 218 , 09:18:44  
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Both speaking and writing have power to effect our thought. By the way, speaking is much better because we can understand if it's serious or just a joke by either voice tone or gesture.

For writing, it's difficult to guess what they're thinking. It's ok to chat by instant messanger, e.g. MSN, Skype, AIM, and so on. the reason for using this is you can tell the other immediately: "I'm kidding" or most of Thais will type "555+" (Ha-Ha-Ha ).

Let's see the blogs and microblogs, sometimes people added 555+ after their comments, but what we perceive depends on our individual moods. For example,

"I'll wait for Toefl score before choosing a University, but I mightn't attend in the same place as you hahaha "

The sentence above is my friend's comment on my hi5. I read this comment around 11.15 pm.  What I thought was negative. Actually, it's just a normal and polite (?) sentence. the phrase "I mightn't attend in the same place as you" has effected to my thought.  I felt like she commented on mine with disgust.

Today, when I read it again, I realize that was just a usual comment.

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comment 10
happyjack date : 06/11/2009 time : 06.37

It was a Hell of a Day,when the Golfer went to his Car,wind n rain.He decided not to Play.He made a Coffee,had a smoke,and decided to go back to Bed.He snuggled up to his Wife, at peace with the World.Hi Darling she said, hes gone,only i could have a Husband who plays Golf in this Weather.
comment 9
Tow date : 05/11/2009 time : 18.17
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Close to nature ...

GG,
HaHa.. maybe because I thought that was about me.
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GGrass date : 05/11/2009 time : 09.44
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Tow : My previous comment was fired at the general public, but it was actually meant for myself.

I need to tell my wife how I feel about her.
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yabua date : 04/11/2009 time : 21.35
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Tow,
I think both writing and speaking have both advantages and disadvantages. They are also good or bad for different purposes.
I personally find writting can bring me where I want to be more easily, especially when it concerns with feeling.
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noonin date : 04/11/2009 time : 18.52
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comment 5
Al date : 04/11/2009 time : 16.17
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Yes, words!
Words can be a big problem if communication is restricted to them. I don't have any solution for it.
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happyjack date : 04/11/2009 time : 15.12

The problem with Words,there is no intonation,Ferang can be an insult, if said in a certain way If you are busy,you dont have much time to split hairs and over Analise, an American Malaise.
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Tow date : 04/11/2009 time : 13.24
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Close to nature ...

GG, I didn't mean about that feeling to her. I meant some articles we read, we have different thoughst. Exactly, like you did.
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GGrass date : 04/11/2009 time : 12.23
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That's why it's important to let the others know how you feel about them.

If you don't tell her how you feel about her, how will she know?

And if she doesn't know how you feel about her, how will she know if you mean well, or if you mean ill?

Do you want her to know you mean well, when you mean well?

Of course you do.

So tell her that you mean well. And not just say it, but say it with substantial FEELING.

FEELING that not only YOU can feel, but her too.

It doesn't count if she doesn't FEEL it too...

So let her know how you feel. Honestly, and bravely.

Ok Ok... just be as honest as you possilbly can.
comment 1
GGrass date : 04/11/2009 time : 09.45
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Yeah.. I know what you mean...
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