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Tuesday , May 13 , 2008
Sex Trade
Posted by Vivie , Reader : 504 , 22:01:55  
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This story is nothing new in Thailand but it has been immersed in my thought.  How come parents trade their own children to be prostitutes?  I try to understand but I couldn't understand.   My opinion, it's nothing about education, it's nothing about poverty.  You can't give such excuses for selling your kids..  They are human being, not your 'Things' especially they are from your blood. 

Read the story..

Imagine ... ...

you would have never been to school, or have had only four years of basic education.   You are qualified only for those jobs that pay the lowest wage. What if you or your family suddenly needed a lot of money;   what then would you do?

There are a variety of possible answers for different people.   But now imagine further you are also very young, and that you are female.   You have seen some girls of your village, some relatives, some neighbours, return from that famous far-away city, Bangkok.   They wear elegant dresses, beautiful ornaments, and some even build plush modern houses.   They were your playmates, but now they have become so much more beautiful than before.

Nothing bad has ever been said to you about working in that city.   You believe that perhaps Bangkok is the answer to earning a living and providing immediate support for your family.   Even in the times when Thailand's economy was still booming, many people of the poorest villages in the North were becoming even poorer.   The current economic downturn made things even worse.   To many, the prospect of quick money has become more important than even the basic human rights.   Some parents sell their daughters into the flesh trade, while some of the young girls have said they were willing to go as a token of gratitude to their parents.

Many of these girls in the North may know exactly what their friends and relatives do in Bangkok.   But as they have few alternatives, they hardly question such an occupation, focusing solely on its profitability.   Rarely will they consider the disadvantages that the job may bring.   But who could blame these young girls, when they have not been offered any reasonable alternatives?

One these young girls was Ramjai, now a young woman in of twenty years.   She and her sister could sucessfully complete their secondary school education with the help of a DEPDC scholarship.

Both the girls are daughters of rice farmers who have only four rai of land.  Their family makes only 40 tang (20 litres of rice) per rai, which is an extremely low level of productivity.   Ramjai's parents did not share the belief of others in the area who regard daughters as commodities to be sold.   Many village people have looked down on them because their daughters do not work as prostitutes like other girls in the village.

"They say my parents have two daughters, but the roof of our house is still made of grass.   Look! That family has only one daughter, but they have a beautiful modern house!" said Ramjai.   "My parents work hard to face their scorn.   During the rainy seasons they get up very early to find bamboo shoots and mushrooms.   After the harvest, my father takes his camera from village to village, taking photographs to earn more money," said Ramjai in a serious voice.   "But in 1989 they could not support us any longer.    I was in Mor 2 (Grade 2) then, and my sister was in Por 6 (Primary 6)."    Fortunately for the young girls the Daughters' had just started to identify young girls at risk in her village, and they were both accepted in the programme. (The Daughters' Education Programme)

When will this problem be faded out in this country?


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comment 13
PasaNINJA2499 date : 14/05/2008 time : 22.20
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Keep walking forward. Don't give up. Don't fed up.

when?

when people stop eating, drinking, breathing, eliminating...
comment 12
MJDP date : 14/05/2008 time : 18.45
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MJDP

Ian

There is a serie programme called "Chinese school" currently show on BBC 4 made by Open University . Greeehhhh

http://www.open2.net/chineseschool/index.html
comment 11
littlefish date : 14/05/2008 time : 14.38
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This issue has been happening so far back as I remember. It is getting worse because of more demand and better earnings. As long as the country still has high poverty rate, this problem will grow.

When people are desperate they will do whatever overcome their problem. Right or wrong, that is another issue.
comment 10
Lalida date : 14/05/2008 time : 14.07
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me too
comment 9
GGrass date : 14/05/2008 time : 13.26
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Felix: Forcing them to study 16 hours a day sounds hell a lot better than forcing them to sleep with 16 men per day.
comment 8
Ian date : 14/05/2008 time : 13.23
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Felix, "study 16 hours a day ", which country is that?
comment 7
FelixQui date : 14/05/2008 time : 12.19
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But is forcing young people into medicine or law against their wishes any better? Is it any worse if parents force their children to study 16 hours a day with no regard to teh childrens wishes?
comment 6
FelixQui date : 14/05/2008 time : 12.17
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There are of course alternatives to prostitution, but it is certainly true that prostitution is a very real and attractive option for many young men and women.
The sensible and moral course of action is to legalise it and make sure that those in this line of work by choice are given teh protection of Thai law that they deserve as citizens of Thailand.
No matter how many attractive alternativs there are, there will always be some men and women who will choose prostitution. That is their right and there is nothing wrong with it. There is of course much wrong with parents or others forcing people into it.
comment 5
catch22 date : 14/05/2008 time : 10.46
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I'm not getting involved - more important things happening.
comment 4
wch date : 14/05/2008 time : 09.36

This topics are often and I long observed in this rural Isan.
My conclusion is some news coverage is an isolated case. There might be little occasional cases of hilltribes who badly need the passage of survival. However they are trickly drawn into such trade, not knowingly, voluntarily at beginning. There is the fixed trade line, say traffickings that are seen not only in Thailand but virtually every country.

Often Sin Sot system (groom dowry) is confused with sale or sale-character may be involved, mostly in criminal way by girl in granma custody who used to be a victim in her past.

'Buying a night' trade in a tourist spot is not sensational in any corner of this globe.
comment 3
Ian date : 14/05/2008 time : 07.58
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As Lalida says, this is a common and familiar story. AS GG says it will never cease until the rural economy makes it unneeded and education makes it unwanted.

It is not just Thailand, the same happens in India, Philippines, Cambodia, etc.

Young female bodies are always in demand, and demand creates supply.
comment 2
Lalida date : 13/05/2008 time : 23.14
http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/Real

So, what else is new ?
comment 1
GGrass date : 13/05/2008 time : 22.41
http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/GGrass

When people stop saying,

"THERE IS NO ALTERNATIVES."
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