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Friday , November 6 , 2009

Reblog : My passion

Posted by GGrass , Reader : 227 , 15:21:38

The good thing about these blogs is that sometimes they trigger a reaction. And I had a reaction to one of these blogs, and started to think about 'passion'. My passion, in particular. The first think that comes up in my mind is golf. I sure am a passionat golfer... But that's not all. I have blogging, writing, picture taking, driving, etc... Come to think, I have many passions. A bit too many, perhaps? Nah... I'm not REALLY passionate about golf... or writing... or picture taking... I'm just doing them coz they kill time... cheaply too. So what is my REAL passion? I wonder... And I think my real passion is 'thinking' and making that thought into something more substantial. Into something others can see... touch... hear... smell... taste... and may be, just may be FEEL. I want to make other people FEEL my thoughts. That's my passion. (I might call this kind of blog a 'Reblog'... as in Blog and REblog. Action and REaction.)

The good thing about these blogs is that sometimes they trigger a reaction.

And I had a reaction to one of these blogs, and started to think about 'passion'. My passion, in particular.

The first think that comes up in my mind is golf. I sure am a passionat golfer...

But that's not all. I have blogging, writing, picture taking, driving, etc...

Come to think, I have many passions. A bit too many, perhaps?

Nah... I'm not REALLY passionate about golf... or writing... or picture taking... I'm just doing them coz they kill time... cheaply too.

So what is my REAL passion? I wonder...

And I think my real passion is 'thinking' and making that thought into something more substantial. Into something others can see... touch... hear... smell... taste... and may be, just may be FEEL. I want to make other people FEEL my thoughts.

That's my passion.

(I might call this kind of blog a 'Reblog'... as in Blog and REblog. Action and REaction.)

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comment 15
yabua date : 09/11/2009 time : 17.08
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Well, GG, it is easier said than done thing but it is worth an effort.
I just guess from my own experiences that you expect so many things from your wife because you think she is your wife, she should........ and so does she as you are her husband, you should.....

At the same time, both she and you may give and care each other less because you have been a couple for quite a few years. (A German research showed that affection and intimacy between men and women approximately last only 6 years

)

Well, GG, when the demand is high while the supply is low, frustration comes.

In my opinion, the most difficult part is to be able to expect less while still being able to maintain trust and confidences in the other person.
It is really worth a big try, though.

If at the end of the day, you can feel that the other one is your true friend, you have been already successful, in my opinion.

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happyjack date : 07/11/2009 time : 15.20

C10.It never crosses my mind,i cant do much about it, it did when i was your age,there was so much living to do,One thing Kids keep you poor,unless your luckey.

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GGrass date : 07/11/2009 time : 09.13
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Good morning general usmale

Have you hugged and kissed your number one audience this morning?

The action of hugging and kissing is not difficult at all, but the feeling that's required to WANT to do that... that's difficult.

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GGrass date : 07/11/2009 time : 09.09
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YB : You said,

"The status and roles of husband and wife have much influence on the levels of expectation and appriciation."

That is true for all husbands and wives. Give me more. I need more advises.

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usmale date : 07/11/2009 time : 09.08
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Cho, C1. Cho, all you have to do is just give her a hug and kiss. I give my "number ONE" a hug and kiss every morning when i wake up (because you never know when you will get to do it again-----meaning that life is short). I have been successful for over ten years of marriage now. She is still my "number ONE audience".

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GGrass date : 07/11/2009 time : 09.07
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HJ : Ok... I see now... Thanks for deciphering.

HJ and Janus : Hey, are you guys in a stage, where you don't worry about death anymore?

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GGrass date : 07/11/2009 time : 09.05
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DS : Thanks for reading krap!

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dryshrimp date : 07/11/2009 time : 07.58
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Dear GG,
I have a feeling that I find it hard to make any comment to your entry. But I support you by just reading. Cheers.
DS

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netnapit date : 07/11/2009 time : 00.37
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What you declared: "And I think my real passion is 'thinking' and making that thought into something more substantial. Into something others can see... touch... hear... smell... taste... and may be, just may be FEEL. I want to make other people FEEL my thoughts.

That's my passion."

That's a true passion! Heard and felt.

As for your thoughts being heard and felt by your wife. Marital relationship has other dynamics, some do not need language. My husband tells me, "Thank you for being the witness of my life". After some 14 years together, he can't read nor understand all my thoughts, nor I his. However, I think what he told me above tells it all.

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noonin date : 06/11/2009 time : 20.58
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comment 4

We worry, because nothing is certain.

Life is the most uncertain thing we ever experience.

The isolation of self is the most frightening truth to encounter.

Once realised then we accept our non importance.

This is different to modesty.

It is an epiphany which the selfless experiences.

A knowledge that is beyond us.

An acceptance of futility.

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yabua date : 06/11/2009 time : 17.52
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Re C1
I understand what you mean.
It is like I could teach several foreigners Thai language but I seem to do a bad job with my own son.
You are too near to each other. The status and roles of husband and wife have much influence on the levels of expectation and appriciation.
As I don´t know her personally, I should not give more opinions, should I?

comment 4
happyjack date : 06/11/2009 time : 17.43

I mean youre Boys are contented with their life,and go with the flow,we worry for no reason.

comment 3
GGrass date : 06/11/2009 time : 16.58
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HJ : Can you be more specific, or do I have to google this?

"An injection of Self Control is needed.Use your Son as a Role Model."

comment 2
happyjack date : 06/11/2009 time : 16.04

An injection of Self Control is needed.Use your Son as a Role Model.

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GGrass date : 06/11/2009 time : 15.49
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And I'm so terrible at doing this. Making my thoughts felt.

If I had even remotely succeeded in making my thoughts felt by my number ONE audience, my wife, then she would be much happier.

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