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Monday , June 1 , 2009

It is my way to love you

Posted by 123456 , Reader : 447 , 07:20:29

I love you, so I trust you will accept my caring and my love and that you will not deliberately hurt me. I trust that you will find me lovable and that you will not abandon me. I can identify with you because I am able to see myself in you and you in me. Love is selfish. I can only love you if I genuinely love, value, appreciate and respect you and myself. If I am empty, then all I can give you is just my emptiness. I am growing as a result of my love. You are a stimulant for me to become more fully what I might become. I love you, so I have a want for you without having a need for you in order to be completive. I am nothing without you, then I am not really free to love you. I love you and you leave, I will experience a total loss and be sad and lonely, but I will still be able to survive. If I am overly dependent on you for my meaning and my survival, then I am not free to challenge our relations, nor am I free to challenge and confront you. Because of my fear of losing you, I settle for less than I want, and this settling will surely lead to feelings of resentment, so most of time I have to learn to let it be. I love you, so I made a commitment to you. However, this commitment doesn’t entail surrendering our total selves to each other, nor does it imply that the relationship is necessarily permanent. It does entail a willingness to stay with you in times of pain, uncertainty, struggle and despair. In a love relationship there are times of boredom, times when we may feel like giving up, times of real strain, and times we experience an impasse. Authentic love does not imply enduring happiness. I am always here for you especially during rough time because I can remember what we had together in the past, and I can picture what we will have together in the future if we care enough to face our problems and work them through. == " the establishment of a relationship depends on two sides, but the destruction of this relationship will happen easily if only one side put effort and another has no eye for it. " -- if so, what do I have to say? Maybe what I should do is to break free if the intimacy must come to an end. I should let you go if the relation have been a burden to your life --if so, what do I have to say? Please do me a favor to end the relations by say " good bye" even though I know it must be worse than what I have thought if you leave --if not, please help me develop a faith --if not, please let me know you do care about me even a little bit so that I will be quite confident of this prospect and pleased with it

I love you, so I trust you will accept my caring and my love and that you will not deliberately hurt me. I trust that you will find me lovable and that you will not abandon me. I can identify with you because I am able to see myself in you and you in me. Love is selfish. I can only love you if I genuinely love, value, appreciate and respect you and myself. If I am empty, then all I can give you is just my emptiness. I am growing as a result of my love. You are a stimulant for me to become more fully what I might become.

I love you, so I have a want for you without having a need for you in order to be completive. I am nothing without you, then I am not really free to love you. I love you and you leave, I will experience a total loss and be sad and lonely, but I will still be able to survive. If I am overly dependent on you for my meaning and my survival, then I am not free to challenge our relations, nor am I free to challenge and confront you. Because of my fear of losing you, I settle for less than I want, and this settling will surely lead to feelings of resentment, so most of time I have to learn to let it be.

I love you, so I made a commitment to you. However, this commitment doesn’t entail surrendering our total selves to each other, nor does it imply that the relationship is necessarily permanent. It does entail a willingness to stay with you in times of pain, uncertainty, struggle and despair. In a love relationship there are times of boredom, times when we may feel like giving up, times of real strain, and times we experience an impasse. Authentic love does not imply enduring happiness. I am always here for you especially during rough time because I can remember what we had together in the past, and I can picture what we will have together in the future if we care enough to face our problems and work them through.

" the establishment of a relationship depends on two sides, but the destruction of this relationship will happen easily if only one side put effort and another has no eye for it. "

-- if so, what do I have to say? Maybe what I should do is to break free if the intimacy must come to an end. I should let you go if the relation have been a burden to your life

--if so, what do I have to say? Please do me a favor to end the relations by say " good bye" even though I know it must be worse than what I have thought if you leave

--if not, please help me develop a faith

--if not, please let me know you do care about me even a little bit so that I will be quite confident of this prospect and pleased with it

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comment 8
maverick263 date : 05/06/2009 time : 22.13

i really like this poem...:

The way of love is not a subtle argument.
The door there is devastation.

Birds make great sky-circles of their freedom.
How do they learn it?

They fall, and falling, they're given wings.

--Rumi

comment 7
maverick263 date : 05/06/2009 time : 21.32

craving is selfish
love is free

comment 6
windy date : 03/06/2009 time : 18.39
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Love IS selfish...

comment 5
maverick263 date : 02/06/2009 time : 23.06

wow... i guess i go along w GGrass tears & women's wisdom na.

personally, i'd say... i've been lucky to meet human expression of "love" ... in poetry, in paintings & music, in a moment eyes lock, bodies move in sync, minds unite na...

you..., if i may say so..., bring some kind of disappointment into ... a lot of words. i hope whoever is receiver of these words doesn't take it neither serious nor personal.

u say, "Love is selfish"

:-) dismisssed na :-)

comment 4
PasaNINJA2499 date : 01/06/2009 time : 21.52
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Keep walking forward. Don't give up. Don't fed up.

love....

sad....

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naive date : 01/06/2009 time : 21.11
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For me that a bit too long and creepy.
(Sorry trying to be honest here

)

Just tell him/her few clear word.
Ask the clear question for the right answer.

Would it\'ll be easier?

comment 2
windy date : 01/06/2009 time : 13.24
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Lisnaree Vichitsorasatra

I love that.

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GGrass date : 01/06/2009 time : 10.50
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