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Wednesday , November 12 , 2008
Sis: It is just a matter of time
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Sis got breast cancer.

 

Sis already finished her operation. She didn’t allow other family members telling me the truth while I was busy with my project, so I always thought that she was in her business trip. I cried immediately when I heard it. I had never thought that it would happen to my sister-such a young, kind and thoughtful woman. Then I rushed back to China. The night before I came back, I cried.

 

Baobei said, “ You must be strong”

Mom cried, “ happy to see you coming back. I feel good now. “

I told her, “ don’t cry. I will take care of sis from now on” I can never cry in front of my family. When I was young, sis always was the first one standing before me when I was in trouble. Father kept training me and remained me, “ one day you must take care of your sis”. Now I am doing my duty.

 

Everyday I went to hospital with sis. I keep smiling while sis becomes moody. After she scolded me, she always said, “ sorry. I don’t mean to.” I smiled, “ never mind. If you feel better after scolding me, doing it. “ She looks at me and cried, “ Sorry, I am a burden to you” I smiled, “ you will never be a burden to me, because I love you. “

 

Sis now is on the 2nd period of her chemo. She has known that I am anxious about her all the time, so whenever I asked her,” how do you feel?” she always smiled, “ I am ok” one day after I suddenly appeared in her sickroom, I saw her crying. I wiped her tear away, hold her hand and said, “ We will win at the end.”

 

Yesterday sis suddenly said, “ all the difficulties will be overcome. I know I can. “ I said, “ sure. It is just a matter of time”

 

Yes, it is just a matter of time.

 

 

 


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FOS date : 12/11/2008 time : 14.38
http://blog.nationmultimedia.com/Dom

123,

Your job is not to make her more sad but to make her strong and happy. Do not make her feel you're sorry for her or sympathize her. Make her feel like a normal person just going through a simple sickness. you sadness towards her will just make things worst, be strong and face reality and help help go through it and be as strong as you.
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